In creating a moment for her, you're also distinguishing yourself from the crowd. Fact is, the woman of your dreams may have many men vying for her attention. When you approach her with something that's uniquely you, you differentiate yourself from the herd.
1. Think outside the box, be creative in what you give her
2. Stay away from crowded restaurants or live music (you want to talk, not be entertained or distracted)
3. Engage in conversation, avoid work, religion & politics
4. Compliment her (she took time to get ready, NOTICE EVERYTHING)
5. Dress to impress, you're a Gentleman.. not a hip hop star or a pro athlete
6. Stand when she enters a room, stand when she leaves...
7. Don't be in a rush to eat, allow her to order her drink and food before you.
8. Have coffee after the meal, Turning the table over for the wait staff is not your concern...
9. keep your hands to yourself.. do not touch a woman who's not your wife or exclusive/monogamous
10. Smile.. Laugh.. Engage... enjoy her company..
These are some simple things, but b/c most men don't take the time to THINK.. they often fail to get a second date, or it becomes something that's not memorable for her... You're trying to court her attention... your competition isn't the other men in her smart phone... your competition is YOU...
Rise or Fall on your own merit
Think/Behave with respect for yourself and for her
Editor... DNYC
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