Gentlemen… I’m going to let you in on a little secret that a woman told me a few years ago about oral sex… She said “How you kiss… is how you kiss”
She continued by saying that some women can judge how you will perform oral sex by how you kiss them… I queried for more information, so she continued.
Have you ever watched the movies, how they make kissing aggressive and intense. I said yeah… so…. She said, that’s not how a woman likes to be kissed. She’s not looking for you to play tonsil hockey, stick your tongue all down her throat, or kiss like it’s the last supper or you’re having a happy meal… Instead, she continued… soft, slow, passion filled kisses.
This is not something men usually discuss…. We always seem to discuss what we do, but never how it’s done. Too often men brag about “hitting it” or having oral performed on them… Rarely do men educate each other on HOW to be a better lover. How to leave her wanting more…
The truth is, if your woman isn’t thinking of you during the times that she’s NOT with you… then she’s really not into you.. For women, the love relationship connection is mental. My dad said to me at 12 or 13.. get into a woman’s mind and you’ll have her heart. NOW I’M NOT TALKING ABOUT MIND GAMES, I’m speaking of the mental stimulation that has her ALWAYS thinking about YOU!!!
Now, back to the subject… as I stated before the kiss should be soft, slow, steamy, smoky.. Passionate.!!! You should not be checking her dental work or engulfing her face.... It should be similar to eating soft ice cream.. or hot soup… a little bit at a time..
Similarly, when you perform oral on her, your approach should be the same.. again, YOU’RE NOT EATING A HAPPY MEAL… nor are you a dog slopping away at a water dish…. The motion should be slow, and sensual.. mix in sucking with circular tongue action.. Everything should be rhythmic.. The clitoris is the source of most of the sensitivity so focus a lot of attention on the hood of her clitoris..
She will let you know when you can be more aggressive… and as she begins to climax you should definitely be more assertive… Plan on being there for 30-45min because UNLIKE YOU… it takes her a little while to climax.. Also, most women will never tell you where their G-Spot is or how to stimulate it.... sorry gentlemen, we live in a sexually repressive society and some women just do not know… So don’t be surprised if you need to try a few things to get her to the mountaintop… Just don’t give up.. because when you're there.. she'll tell you to stay there!!!! Spend some time putting in work, and you can bring her to orgasm, and multiple orgasm and multiple-multiple orgasm as you find out what pleases her…
In the end, I didn’t believe it when I was told, and you may not either.. Some of you may not even like performing oral on your woman??? Which is odd because you like it being performed on you.
This, Gentlemen is like any other skill; you must work on it… no one becomes an expert the first time out the gate… However, when you become good at pleasing your woman orally… she’ll spend her days wondering about what you’re doing and the next time she will see you….
DISCLAIMER: Please be open about your sexual health and take necessary precautions to protect yourself against communicable diseases.. Oral Sex involves a great degree of trust, so get medically checked and tested for STD’s prior to performing or having performed oral sex.. Be Open, Ready and Willing to provide your mate your test results on a regular basis..
Return of the Gentleman doesn’t advocate high risk sexual behavior, nor do we take responsibility for the results of your actions…
Return of the Gentlemen does advocate monogamous, exclusive healthy relationships where the goal is marriage
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