Monday, February 21, 2011

Dimes vs. Diamonds

Dimes vs. Diamonds


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Gentlemen.. I want to take a moment to discuss something that popular culture deems as perfection

In the 1970 Blake Edwards produced a movie called “10” featuring Dudley Moore and Bo Derek. At the time she was the image of perfection along with Farah Fawcett and a lot of other late 1970’s blonde bombshells. Through the 80’s and 90’s we’ve had a sea of Bonde/Blue Eyed women paraded to us as the image of perfection or the “10”..

What this has created in men is a desire to have that Ideal. A lot of songs have come out addressing the perfect “10” and it has become what most men desire. Men are visual creatures so appearance is valued more than character.

What this has created in women, and specifically African-American women is a perverted sense of self worth and self value. Many African American women attempt to make themselves the perfect 10. The media images of beauty or perceived beauty is what way too many women are chasing... fact is YOU ARE PERFECT LADIES THE WAY YOU ARE!!!

We as men can either play into that, or reject that. Bottom line is a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman irrespective of race or national origin.

A lot has been made in pop culture about Dimes… you heard the songs “shawty is a ten”… There is lies the problem… I love a dime like the next man. However, how many times have you found a dime in the street. How many times have you had a pocket full of dimes and wanted to get rid of it.

Truth is Ten Dimes is and always will be ONE DOLLAR… and we all know a dollar isn’t worth much today. So, for all the Dimes out there we love you and appreciate you … but the fact is we want more than a dime…. We want a DIAMOND!!

You see diamonds are rare. They’re formed under pressure…. It takes a little bit of effort to find them and pull them out of the earth. Those facts make a Diamond valuable and desired over any of the precious stones.

The same holds true for women of standard. These women are rare, they are created under pressure, separated from the others by God, and it takes a little effort to find them as well as win their affection

Gentlemen, when making your choice on what type of woman you pursue or desire the choices seem very clear. You could have a dime and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, if you value something more or want someone who knows her own value and worth…

Remember Gentlemen, not all women are ladies… but all ladies are women….

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Editor - DNYC

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Shoe Polish



Gentlemen, I’ve spent a little bit of time discussing character issues or religious issues… Even spent some time discussing marriage issues..

Today, I’m going to discuss a style issue… Shoe polish!!!

When I left college, fully equipped to handle the world… I enlisted in the Army… 1st Battalion Charlie Company, 3rd Platoon at Ft Jackson South Carolina. The war zone!! Unfortunately it was the civil war!!!! Old barracks, heat, sand it was miserable.

On day one, we all arrived at what’s called the “reception station”… In this place you get your uniforms, you get your boots, you eat good for a day or two… Essentially it’s a place to muster (gather) the platoons and companies for an 8wk cycle that’s hell!!

Bear in mind, I pledged my Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Incorporated and this army thing should be nothing!!!... or so I thought… My reasons for joining the military were in part due to a student loan repayment program, which left me with no student loan debt 2yrs after graduation… sweet deal huh!!!! I thought so too until boot camp….

Eight weeks, 1 million push ups, hundreds of miles walking with a fifty pound ruck sack (backpack)… hell looked better than boot camp… During the reception center stay we had young 18yr old soldiers polishing their boots to a high gloss shine

Lesson one… never do that… you’ll be in the sand 99.999% of the time in boot camp and polished boots mean you must constantly polish them… I left mine in the same dull black that I got them in..  Hoooray for me, never once did I get harassed by the DS (Drill Sargent ) about my boots…

Toward the end of boot camp maybe week 5 I did finally polish my boots. They were broken in… the leather was soft and I was ready to go… so let me walk you through my process…


First I cleaned them with saddle soap… this keeps the leather clean and conditioned. Second I would roll a soft white t-shirt around two fingers and swirl black shoe polish on two fingers.  Next I would dip my fingers in warm water and swirl the polish into the leather then allowed 2-5min for drying.. With a spray bottle I would spray the boots with a light mist of water and alcohol… and the same on a with cotton towel.. Now, the magic…. I would never buff I would however, remove the polish with a side to side motion w/ the towel until there was a light shine.. Then with a clean white t-shirt I would dip the same two fingers wrapped in the t-shirt in warm water and alcohol and swirl lightly… this would produce over 20-30min a high gloss patent leather shine..  the daily maintenance was exactly the same process.. usually done late at night so that the boots would have a high gloss shine in the morning .. We’d have two pair of boots so doing both pair usually took an hour....

Gentlemen, the same process I used years ago I also use for my shoes. It is said that the first thing a woman notices about you is your shoes. Learning how to polish or shine your shoes is critical to your overall polished look.. The association that she’s making in your shoes is how organized you are.. Just like when you walk in a woman’s house and you see how she keeps it….

I know casual shoes are easy and comfortable.. However every man should have at least three pair of hard bottoms… black, brown and cordovan … keeping them cleaned and polished completes your overall look and makes a definite difference in how you are viewed by the fairer sex..


When I lived in New York City there were shoe shine guys everywhere… there were even shoe shine stores… After moving to Atlanta it was hard to find a good shoe shine man outside of Atlanta Hartsfield Airport… Which means, Gentlemen, we must polish our own shoes…


That said… don’t leave the house unfinished… shave, shower, cleaned and pressed suit… and shoes shined!!! A little effort can go a long way…. Thanks to shoe polish!!

Editor - DNYC

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Damages - Look in the Mirror



Good Morning Gentlemen, This morning I want to discuss with you how we are all in some way damaged by life experiences...

Before I start, I want to back up and perhaps address some things we should be doing on the front side before we begin dating. ALL of us have some trauma in our lives. For some it’s childhood abandonment trauma, for others its not forming the bond with mom or dad, and yet for others it’s relationship trauma

I find it somewhat ironic that for at least the last 50yrs single women have been raising young black boys into men… Only for the next generation of women to complain about how trifling those men are…. For some of those women it’s no fault of their own… they were married and divorced & forced with the responsibility of raising boys to men… for others they made choices that made them single mothers…

Whatever the situation, women cannot raise boys to be men… I don’t care how strong or independent the woman… it’s impossible because these women have never been men. We’re seeing a rise in “down low” brothers because for 18-20yrs they’ve been watching AND EMULATING THEIR MOTHERS..  On the flip side, you have men who use their penis to express their manhood..

Those of us who did have strong men and women in our lives as parents who gave us foundation., even that was not without struggle. My own parents struggled to make ends meet and barely spent time with us trying to make a better life…

Fact is, we’re all damaged… Whether you want to admit it or not, take a long strong look in the mirror and assess who you are, how you’ve been hurt…. BUT THE NEXT STEP IS TO TAKE THAT ASSESSMENT AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!

Statistically, African Americans do not seek therapy.. This is a problem because many of the issues we face, much of the damage NEEDS to have an outside party looking and assessing giving us strategies to work out our issues.

Gentlemen, don’t be afraid to ask for help!!!.. There are self help books, men’s groups, spiritual counseling and secular counseling. Don’t assume for a moment that you are perfect and cannot improve. Don’t assume that you don’t need help when it’s obvious to everyone around you that you do.. Introspection is critical to understanding your faults and coming to some conclusions on what areas you need to work on.

This leads us to dating…. Gentlemen, I’m sorry to report.. You shouldn’t be dating if you’re damaged. It’s unfair to dump all of your issues on someone else’s doorstep. I’ve operated on the thought that said hurt people hurt people… Your damages, wounds, baggage, & damage is only going to hurt the woman that you may profess your love to. If she is the woman that is intended for you she will work with you and help you work through those issues. If she’s unwilling or unable to wait for you to resolve those issues, LET HER GO!!! Your damages are only going to damage her!!! That’s real!!!!

I cannot express to you more gentlemen that this “Return of the Gentlemen” movement is not about clothing and external appearance. We must support each other and change the way we think and behave.

You have plenty of time, don’t be in a rush to force a relationship when clearly you’re not ready… For those already dating or married… look in the mirror and seek whatever therapy you may need… and allow your spouse or mate to be part of that process… IT WILL BRING YOU CLOSER… For those single Gentlemen out there.. Take some time to work on you… to fix you to become whole….

Gentlemen, remember two halves make only ONE… Two wholes make TWO.. Work on becoming a whole person. Then and only then will you be in a position to enrich her life on a spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical level

Be blessed Gentlemen

Editor - DNYC

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

February 15, 2011 – The DAY AFTER!!!!!!



February 15, 2011 – The DAY AFTER!!!!!!

Good morning Gentlemen, I have a problem!!!! First, I’d like to welcome you to the winter of love.. it’s 02.15.2011 the day after…. NOW WHAT?? Today  is 02.15.2011..... what are you going to do to demonstrate your love for her today… or tomorrow… or the next day.. or the rest of the year…

For the entire day yesterday on facebook if you did or said nothing you could literally watch the lamentations of our single female counterparts gripe about being single, lonely and perhaps even a bit angry on Valentines Day… WHY??? Why so much expectation for one day.. Why is all of the onus on men??

I’m VEXED by intellectually powerful “single independent black women” venting their frustration on receiving a text msg or email from male friends who wanted to say something nice to them either via txt or email..  it wasn’t that serious for most men… why did our female counterparts take it to heart so???

Here’s the problem, if that woman didn’t have time or space for you in her life and you sent her a nice gesture…. Then, hours later she’s griping about only receiving text msgs or emails??? Then maybe next year you just leave it and let Valentines Day come and go saying nothing. Point is if you’re not appreciated for the little things… why do big things??? It’s winter!!! Let the cold weather reign

GET YOUR HEART OUT OF IT…. Because at the end of the day it’s just like those valentines hearts that you got in elementary school…  The real question is why the outward lashing out… why the disappointment??....

Ask yourself this question gentlemen, who was the first person to text or email you.??? Chances are you sent the msg before you received one???

Second, for those who went all out w/ dinner gifts and whatever else… NOW WHAT.. are you going to stop loving that woman today?? I mean you went all out today… do you go back to the status quo today??? You get 364 days NOT to love her… and ONE day to compensate???? This is the dichotomy of Valentines Day… WE put so much effort into one day and none into the rest of the year?? It’s a bizarre quandary ???

My last point is for the women in relationships… WHAT DID YOU DO FOR YOUR MAN??? Or is it all about you? His sacrifices, time, commitment ect didn’t mean enough to you for you to do something for him??? You were so narcissistic that you couldn’t take a few days prior to think about him??

This may rub a lot of people the wrong way, some may never get to this point in the blog… However, relationships are never one way… not give/take… not 50/50… I don’t want 50% of anyone… I don’t want anyone taking from me… and I certainly don’t want someone so narcissistic that they believe a day to celebrate relationship is all about her?? C’mon Son!!!!

It’s now 02.15.2011… NOW WHAT… what do you do for the rest of the year to demonstrate your love… what type of effort are you going to put into your relationship for the rest of the year..

My point is Valentines Day should be the “above and beyond”… you should be loving that woman all year long… not just one day….

So… today 02.15.2011… it’s winter… what are you going to do to demonstrate your love for her today… or tomorrow… or the next day.. or the rest of the year…

Yeah… my bet is that you’re not even thinking about it.. ??? sad how love dies!!!

Editor - DNYC

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Valentines Day - Love is an ACTION!!!




Valentines Day

Good Day Gentlemen, Today I want to take a moment to discuss Valentines Day.

Some dread it, some look forward to it, some think its over commercialized, some think it’s the best day ever. The expectations of Valentines Day leaves some men scrambling at the last minute to create a special moment for the women in their  lives.

However, there in lies the problem….. All of the valentines day commercials from jewelers, card manufacturers, etc puts the onus on men. Ask your women to go out and look for something special for you, just for grins… no major department store, drug store or grocery store carries anything for men. What seems to be implied is that if you buy her candy and flowers.. She will give you sex?? How else would you explain it???

Women who are creative and really care about the men in their lives try to make a moment for the men in their lives. For men it’s perhaps not about the sentimental but the effort. A hot bath, a good meal, flowers sent to the office, or even a surprise lunch date may be enough to make the day special for a man… We don’t need a lot, but we’d like to know that someone is thinking about us.

Now,  That being said, lets discuss the other 364 DAYS out of the year. So much emphasis is put on one day that it makes one wonder… what happens on the 15th.. or the 16th of Feb????  When we put all the emphasis on one day, we often times forget about the rest of the year. For love to grow and flourish we have to put in the work the rest of the year.

Gentlemen, lets be clear.... As we continue to change not only our actions and apparel, lets be mindful of our thoughts.  Love is an action… you must choose to love someone. The woman that you chose to love you must be determined to put in some work. You must give her the daily expressions of how you feel and what you think about her. Maybe it means coming home and making her a hot bath w/ rose pedals, maybe it means giving her a hot oil massage, or maybe it means picking up after the kids and doing the laundry. Whatever the case speak her love language. Make her feel special. Give her all of you and sacrifice nothing for her.

We often hear men say “I’ll die for that woman”… how about LIVING FOR HER???? You’re no good to anyone dead and she needs you here. In living for her you must become selfless in what you do and how you do it.

Relationships are NOT mono-directional… nor is it about the give/take… Love,… real love is give/give… it is a selfless acts by selfless people… When you find yourself taking or expecting someone to give?? You should really question your position in that relationship

So as you head into your valentines day… Gentlemen, try to create that impact moment for her. You’ve had since Feb 15th 2010 to think about it… Because really, if you find yourself at the local supermarket, or Costco, or sams club, or a supermarket buying a last minute on the way home from work gift… you failed!!! So don’t be surprised if on Feb 15th 2011 some other man makes her smile or brings a tear to her eye because he thought enough about her to DO  SOMETHING!!!..

Remember Gentlemen, Love is an ACTION!!!!

Editor -DNYC

Friday, February 11, 2011

Financial Responsibility



Good Day Gentlemen, Today duty called and I had to work most of the day so I’m a bit late in bringing you my latest thoughts, so lets get into it

She’s burning up your credit card. She wants to go out every weekend and it’s killing your pocket. Yeah you want to impress her with the finer things that you can afford but this money doesn’t grow on trees..

Make it rain… make it rain…. I’d accept a little hail…  You can blame it on her all you want, but you made the choice.  Dating in 2011 is expensive and whether you choose to residential date or paint the town red. You’re going to end up spending a few dollars. Don’t blame it on her though!!!

When discussing financial responsibility with men it’s difficult to tell men what to do with their money, because at the end of the day… money = power = respect. So, for men… being told how to spend their money becomes somewhat of a problem… I will not do that here

Instead, I will discuss prioritizing your financial responsibilities so that you make good judgment calls when it comes time to spend.

Pay your rent or mortgage… woowing her is important, but not more important than housing
Purchase food, Have enough nutritionally balanced meals in your home… Ramen Pride noodles      doesn’t count!!! The sodium will kill you
Have enough to pay your car payment, insurance, and gas  set aside
Keep your utilities up to date… payment schedules for monthly recurring bills will dig a hole for you faster then you think
Invest and tithe… Retirement will hit you faster then you think.. to have retirement savings and Gods blessing on your life will be worth it!!
Be responsible with credit card usage as well as make payments on time.. A bad credit score will hurt you for at least 7yrs… DO NOT LET ANYTHING GO 30DAYS PAST DUE….. Employers are now taking credit reports as part of your employment process

After that… your discretionary income can be used for movies, dinner, vacation’s  and whatever else you choose to spend it on… As this relates to the woman in your life… Be honest with her on what your REAL economics are.

Atlanta is well known for having $30,000/year millionaires. Dudes spending all their paycheck in the club then eating Ramen pride or sponging off their parents for the rest of the month

This final point is even more critical… Gentlemen.. whatever you do, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ASK YOUR WOMAN FOR MONEY TO HELP YOU OUT.. Real men hustle and grind to make sure they have enough financial resources…. If you’re not making your ends meet, find another job… or reduce the luxuries that you really don’t need. Also, at the end of the year, review your contractual agreements.. Most phone companies, cable/satellite providers and credit card companies offer payment reductions or  promotional deals which could reduce your overall cost for a short time..

Bottom line, Gentlemen should be prepared to handle whatever financial situation, and if your money is tight… perhaps dating is not something you should be considering at the moment.

Editor – DNYC

Thursday, February 10, 2011

T.E.A.M – Together Each Achieves More!!!


Gentlemen, who’s on your team… your squad… your clic!!!

Lets talk for a moment about the difference between selfishness and selflessness. We all have agendas that we pursue when we begin dating or are involved in relationships. For some of us the agenda is purely physical.. For others the spiritual cohesion… while for others it’s a mental synergy. Whatever the case, look yourself in the mirror and come to terms with what your agenda is...

Whatever you agenda is when you step out the door, lets be clear about a few things.. If your choice is to be in a relationship, understand there are two paths to take... the one of the selfish, and the one of the selfless

You can always chase a path that selfish and vapid. However, in the end you’ll be sitting at home wondering why no one wants to spend time with you or why your relationships seem to fail. Not just those with women, but with people at large.


Selfish people believe that the world revolves around them. They make no time for or take no consideration for others. You see it every day on the highway’s and bi-ways. People driving with cellphone surgically attached to ear, moving between lanes with no regard to the other traffic. They use no turn signal nor do they look to see if any traffic is there. Or you have those who sit in the left lane holding up everyone behind them. They’re not moving b/c the road belongs to them.

Selfish relationships are the same. We call those people takers!!! You give and give and give and give… yet the world seems to revolve around them. There is nothing you can do that’s right enough or perfect enough... Everything that goes wrong is your fault... They generally take no responsibility for the relationship or for you. Selfish people have a way of sucking the life energy out of you. The self destructive patterns of selfish people destroy the very thing that they seek… Someone to love and care for them without requiring anything… Selfish people are leeches!!!


Selfless people on the other hand give without expectation. They have a sense of unyielding sacrifice. They’d give you the shirt on their back and everything they do is about giving. In relationship, two selfless people can have a long relationship because it’s not about “I LOVE YOU”… its about “I LOVE US”… Everything that transpires in that relationship is for the enrichment, growth and development of that relationship.  The individual persons agenda is met because their mate has the desire to make their wishes and dreams come true… Selflessness = Reciprocation = REAL LOVE.

The point gentlemen, is to build a TEAM.. and adopt the team concept in your home. You all watch enough sports to know what a good team vs a bad one. In the T.E.A.M. concept everyone wins. You will reciprocate everything your mate does. You will support her dreams and vision for her life. Your selfless acts will build a relationship that endures the test of time…

Remember gentlemen…. T.E.A.M – Together Each Achieves More... Don't expect her to be 100% behind your goals or vision, if when she steps into the world you're not behind hers!!!!

So ask yourself the question… Is that woman on your team, or are you on opposing teams with opposing interest.. If that is the case.. let her go about her business. You have no reason to be in her life… or her in yours…

Something to think about

Editor – DNYC

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Leader!!!!


Good day Gentlemen. Today I’d like to discuss what we lead with when we approach women. It’s no secret that women seek security…. Physical,  Emotional, and Financial security. Believe what you wish, at the end of the day there is plenty of empirical anthropological evidence to support this fact.

During the stone age, women sought the stronger man to provide physical security and economic security. By this I mean before there was currency there was trade/barter.. The man who could bring home the meat was valued.

During ancient times , the man with financial wealth (land, cattle ect… ) was valued over the pauper. Women were in arranged marriages with wealthier men

Medieval timed proved no different, women sought men who could hunt/gather as well as go to  battle to prove their manhood… Much of chivalry is based on medieval code of conduct.

Today it’s no different, Cash Rules Everything Around Me.. (C.R.E.A.M)…. Men may not directly compete against each other in a way that women do, but they definitely compete. The cars, houses, money and all of the other accouterments life has to offer... Men seek, work for and earn material things to attract women.. Financial strength has inherent power to attract desirable women. Men also spend tremendous amounts of time in the Gym when they’re dating to demonstrate that physical security that women seek.. Emotionally & Spiritually today we fail at providing a safe and healthy environment for women… However, if a woman trust you and feels safe with you, you’ve won most of the battle. So what do you lead with???


Men carp way too often about women being gold diggers… But what did you lead with?? Do you have photo’s with your business suit on Facebook? Do you have photo’s of your home or car?? Do you have your trips to exotic locations on Facebook?? Whether you realize it or not, you’re leading with your financial power/strength.. How then can you complain about a woman being a gold digger when YOU led with your gold??? How about your physical strength/power… how many pictures of you w/ your shirt off do you have posted?? Please recognize that you’re leading with your physical strength..

What about your thoughts, do you make comments about what you think about emotional or intellectual issues? Do you spend time trying to elucidate your thoughts on relationship, health, spiritual, mental or emotional matters? Believe it or not you’re leading with your intellect that some women may find very attractive.

Be not mistaken women do the same. Women lead with their sexuality in an attempt to win the attention of a man. Some women even blur the lines between sexuality and sensuality… Believe me there is a big difference between what is sexy and what is sensual.

Gentlemen, the point is what we lead with is what attracts the opposite sex to us. I for one do have pictures of my home, and car and even promote my business on Facebook. Not to brag or boast, but because God has blessed me abundantly and I’m not ashamed of the God that I serve. However, I also am fully cognizant of the FACT that some women may see the “bug light” and be attracted to that.  It’s a bit déclassé as a man to have half nude pictures of yourself on Facebook unless you’re a semi-pro or professional body builder. I have none!! Enough said. I also pontificate on and espouse my thoughts on matters of the heart, my faith walk with God and my intellectual thoughts on politics and a range of issues… I’m cognizant of what that may attract as well.

What we lead with IS what we attract. Please gentlemen, stop using pejorative terms such as gold digger to describe women when YOU are attracting those women by what YOU lead with. If all you’re about is what you materially possess, don’t get angry with women who seek financial security.  Consequently if you’re leading with your body the same holds true. On matters of the heart and your intellect, those things will attract a very different type of woman… But please understand what you are leading with..

On the darker side, if you jump out on Facebook with you’re issue, drama, or brokenness… Realize that is what women will see some may be attracted to that and feel their maternal instinct can help you through it…. Others will reject it whole heartedly believing you have way too much baggage.

Be aware Gentlemen of what you lead with. What you project is what the women are watching and the ladies are paying attention to.

Editor - DNYC

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Daily Foundations



Good Morning Gentlemen, For a week I’ve discussed the “internal man”… Now it’s time to discuss the external. It has long been stated that clothes make the man. Lets take a moment to discuss foundational things we all should be doing


Fitness: While I’m not a gym rat, I understand the inherent need for good health.. You can certainly spend thousands of dollars getting “in shape” but the reality is most things you can do in a gym you can do at home for free. My recommendation is to work on your cardio.  Fact is, to maintain an erection you need Oxygen and good blood flow. Cardio will not only increase your stamina sexually but will make you feel better overall.




Skin Care: A good hot shower will clear your pores. However find a quality bath gel. I’m not a big fan of bar soap, as such I’ve used an array of mens bath gels. My favorites are the Bvlgari Aqva Marine Gel  $40 @ Macys or Nordstrom’s and the Dial Ocean Breeze $4 at Wal-Mart.. My son uses AXE.. different strokes, but use what works for you... I also take multiple showers daily so skin drying is a problem. There are now a range of mens lotions and skin care products to moisturize.  Shaving is an issue for a lot of men, and whether you use depilatory’s, or shaving cream/razor or electric…. It’s important to soften the hair w/ HOT water prior to shaving..



Grooming: A good haircut can set off your look. Whether you are a barbershop dude or if you’re like me and cut your own hair, try to keep your hair groomed and styled. Second, don’t forget to trim that stray ear and nasal hair. Mustache and Beard/Go-tee’s and eyebrows should be trimmed and groomed regularly w/ your haircut. Also, find out if your lady likes a hairy man or not, She may not be a fan of dating a wolf or monkey boy!!!.. Thus trimming arm pit hair, pubic hair, and other body hair may be necessary… you can be a man and not look like you just walked out of the jungle



Spa Days: Gentelmen, no matter what your homophobic friends say, GET A REGULAR DEEP TISSUE MASSAGE from a licensed massage therapist. There are way too many stresses on a man to not get the tension in his muscles massaged out. Gentlemen you need that time to relax and have someone do something for you. Second, Get a regular manicure. LONG NAILS ON A MAN IS NOT CUTE… I’ve seen to many men with nails longer than women?  SN: if you’re going to be putting your fingers up in a woman, manicured nails will prevent you from cutting/scarring her vaginal wall…  the point is gentlemen spend some time on grooming

In the end, Caring for your skin is as important as your regular work out, spiritual health, and mental health… if you don’t sacrifice on the other aspects of your health why sacrifice your skin..



Gentlemen, even if it means stepping away from some paradigms that we as men have been socialized to believe about men… Believe this… Gentlemen are refined!!!  You may call it metro-sexual if you like… Perhaps a change of perspective would do you some good…. Believe me when I say your table manners, Etiquette, mental, spiritual, physical health is as important as the foundational things you do daily to prepare for the world

Editor - DNYC

Monday, February 7, 2011

Image IS EVERTHING


Good Morning Gentlemen, Today I’m going to discuss Image…. The one we project either publicly or in the social media arena

Without a doubt that men are visual creatures, we see a woman who we deem as attractive and we move. Her character, intelligence, or personality means little at this point… what we see is what we want!!!

So??? What’s the problem????? The problem is social networking is forcing some women to project images of themselves that isn’t reflective of who they are. You’ve seen the bootie shots, the cat suits, tattoos proudly displayed on cleavage and the like. What image is conjured up mentally when you see what may be a nice woman who’s made a bad decision about what image she’s going to project ??? HOOOCHIE.. that’s what you’re thinking.



Sex is on display with a big “for sale” sign on social media… MySpace, black planet and the like died b/c of this mentality of both men and women. Being comfortable in your skin and your sexuality is one thing… Displaying it on social media is something else..

Women don’t want to be called “HOE” yet the image that SOME project is just that. I take no issue with that, however, if you project “hoe” then expect that men will treat you as such. The same holds true for men.  One cannot project one image and expect women will see something else in you. When you try to dress like a hip hop star then women naturally will assume you’re a thug…. Some men don’t mind this

This is more than the superficial of appearance… It’s a mindset in the culture that says “I’m just expressing myself”… kiddies, it’s time to grow up and leave the things of children behind.  The old guy in the club is pathetic… but he’s just as pathetic as the maturing woman trying to relive her 20’s

People get frustrated by the types of people they attract.. There is wanted and unwanted attention. Just realize that the image you’re projecting may be the reason you’re attracting unwanted attention.

As you step out this morning project confidence… project style…. Project intelligence and women of character and standard will notice… Project the opposite and what you get is what you deserve..

For the record I don’t endorse treating women like trash, however, those women never get close enough to me for it to become an issue…

You’re image does mean something.. Garner it with a certain degree of respectability.

Editor - DNYC

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Do you REALLY care about her??



Good Sunday morning Gentlemen. I write todays entry not to cast any value judgment or to impose my morality. I simply wish to state a few things that perhaps the religious community doesn’t address lucidly.

We’ve all been beat over the head at some point in our lives with church doctrine against pre-marital sex. Whether that doctrine is scripturally sound or not is not the issue. Nor is the issue that you’re denying yourself of your God given passion to satisfy the flesh… I want to approach this from perhaps a logically different avenue. If nothing else to get you to think about your actions as you traverse the relationship landscape.

Adam called Eve “flesh of my flesh… blood of my blood”. Thus taking on the responsibility of Eve and understanding that his role was to protect her… From the world and from himself. (LOGIC: why would he harm someone who he saw as flesh of his flesh, blood of his blood.).

Contrary to what society tells us, Marriage doesn’t begin with the public profession, wedding, or vows… Marriage begins with consummation!!!! In ancient times this was called a blood covenant. The virginal (PURE) woman’s hymen was broken during the married couples wedding night… Failure to see blood on the sheets would result in her being sent home and the marriage being nullified

So, if we understand that logically, there is a blood covenant.. We must also understand that God sees that union as ONE body in his sight.  Secondly, during copulation there is a soul tie. You are bonded to that person eternally.  Even under current societal norms this plays out in popular culture whereby if someone passed HIV or any other STD to you, it could impact your life for the rest of your life.

Logic would dictate that if there’s a soul tie, a blood tie, and God sees you as one body in his sight..  Every sexual encounter in God’s eyes is “marriage”…  This is also the exact reason homosexual marriage isn’t recognized. How can one create the aforementioned ties??? logic would say you can't and neither by the state, the church, and more importantly GOD!!! (toys and self pleasure also fall in that category.... think about it????)

The point in all of this, If you really care about her, and you don’t see her as someone that you socially or casually date to kill time. Then understanding as a man you have a responsibility that is greater than you may want to believe or assume. By extension,  the pressures of an intimate relationship creates complications that we may not be prepared for.  We seem to focus on the sexual intimacy, and not the relationship building. We get trapped into believing that because the sex is good we can will other aspects of the relationship to work… WE ALL KNOW THAT’S NOT TRUE

We each must decide if moving from a intensely romantic to a sexually intimate relationship is what’s right for our particular situation. As I said to start I make no judgment on what you do as men.  However, ask yourself… Do I really care about her.. Do I respect that she wants to remain pure until marriage. Can I deny my own sexual desires to wait for her..

If you care, these questions become null…  Only you can decide if she’s that important… Only you can decide if you really care about her.

Editor - DNYC

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Lets be "Friends"



Good morning Gentlemen.. I’d like to this morning talk about our female “friends”.  BOTH those who we have romantic or sexual interest in as well as those women who we have platonic friendships with.

I want to address two different types of female “friend”

First, we’ve all had women in our lives at some point who said “We can be Friends”. This becomes problematic on two levels. For one if there was a romantic or sexual interest it could spell romantic death!!! Most men will subtlety persue that interest even if you agree to be “friends” with her. Men NEVER EVER EVER cast a woman to the side because she’s not interested in having more of a relationship.  In general we’d rather have that woman near us even if at a superficial level then to not have her in our lives.  Second, most men look at the “we can be friends” statement as an excuse by women who just can’t be honest in saying that they’re really not interested.  This goes along with the ubiquitous “you’re like a brother” and the new for 2010 excuse “I’m bi-sexual/gay”

The paradox is women who say they want honesty then lie to you, but that’s a separate issue

Second, lets discuss Platonic female friends.. Those you have no sexual or romantic interest in.. the round-the-way girl that you’re just cool hanging out with.. She knows your flaws, knows your character, and knows you perhaps even more than you know yourself. This is the woman who sees your heart and you see hers. You can go out for drinks with her, and talk for hours about life, and even the relationships you’re both in and the trials and tribulations of that. Perhaps because you're thinking with your lower head you can't see that she's the embodiment of all of the qualities you're seeking

Here’s the dilemma!!! Which woman should you really be considering?

I’m a firm believer that two people should develop a friendship before entering into a relationship. Yes there must be chemistry and romantic love. However, The glue that binds the relationship is your friendship with that woman. All to often we get married have kids, house, bills and even build a life, skipping over the friendship phase. Both men and women believe that all of those other things are the ties that bind.. yet sadly they're not.. it's the Friendship!!! You MUST enjoy that woman's company if you're going to have her with you at 90yrs of age... In that marriage we get comfortable and take that person for granted never understanding that we should enjoy each others company.

Does that woman make you laugh, smile, can she share your joys, successes, pain. Will she be there when you’re not having a good day, or when you’re at the top of the mountain of success..

Fact is Gentlemen, the woman you should be falling in love with… is your best friend. Look around, who else would you rather be spending the rest of your life with!!!

In the end, when I’m 90yrs old, GOD WILLING…. I want to be sitting on the porch drinking sweet tea with my sweetie.. my best friend!!!

Just something to consider

Editor… DNYC

Friday, February 4, 2011

Amazing Man!!!


Good Morning Gentlemen… Believe it or not contrary to conventional wisdom it is not men who get to decide if a relationship is a go..  Women decide to let you into their lives, into their hearts, and into their homes. All you can do as a man is profess to her that you’d like to be a part of her life then proceed to be a little different... a little amazing.... 

Gentlemen, your competition is not the next man or the last... IT'S YOU!!!

Thus, Here are some things you can do to separate yourself from the herd (or horde) of men who are vying for her attention..

·      Do not lie to her… even if it hurts be honest, forthcoming, and lucid
·      Do not tell her no, or what you will not do to make her happy
·      Be responsible about your personal dealings and responsive to her needs
·      Seek wisdom and knowledge.. Spiritually, Emotionally, & Mentally
·      Be responsible with your finances
·      Love … not just those in your immediate circle of family...
·      Be faithful to your commitments, Honor God, Honor yourself, & Honor her
·      Stand on what you believe in, do not waiver…
·      Value your reputation, let there be no one who can say a bad word about you
·      Say what you mean, mean what you say (don’t tell her you’ll call and don’t call)
·      Challenge her to Grow Personally, Professionally, & Spiritually
·      Don’t be perfect…. Be perfect for her… be the iron that sharpens iron
·      Pray for guidance in your decisions…. Then pray with her for health in your relationship

Fact is being amazing to her isn’t difficult when she loves & respects you..

When we began this “Year of the Gentleman” It was more than just making a fashion statement.. We must be committed to being honorable men.. Holding each other to a standard that has long since passed. 

Christ gathered 12 disciples to follow him.. Each of those men took responsibility for the next man.

This is the essence of “The Year of the Gentleman – Return of the Gentleman”.. it would be easy to be about trends, fashion, style…. But if the heart of the man is corrupt then all we’d be doing is dressing up a pig…

I want to see us do better.. it starts with each man examining himself, but also each of us as men, sharpening the other man

Be Amazing!!!

Editor – DNYC

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Valentines Day 2011


Over the next week there will be a crush of people attempting to make one day special for their lady. HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM!!!!!! 

The expression of love however is not encapsulated in one day but in every day. As gentlemen we must raise the standard.  The standard has to be raised for both us and for the women in our lives. This is a paradigm shift in how we think and how we act holds true especially this week..

Love is about Give/Give ….. not give-take. When the relationship gets to a place where one person is giving and the other is taking. The problems that result are hurt feelings and disappointment. The giver will never give enough to make the taker satisfied. There’s always going to be more that the taker wants.  Don’t feed that monster….

When you give, give with your whole heart. There will be good days and bad days in every relationship but try in earnest to make every day good and although it sounds cliché … never go to bed angry.

As we head into Valentines day. Lets take the time to be creative. For women it’s not about what you say, but what you DO!!... Love is an action it requires work.. So, go to work every day making her every day special. Her heart is in your hands so you must take care of what is most valuable.

Women and men will wrongly assume that valentines day is about sexual intimacy.. Hordes of men will rush to Costco to buy flowers or CVS to buy whitmans chocolates in a vain attempt to “get some”… this is not love… this is narcissism... its selfish and not a selfless love and thus most of those same men will go to bed upset that they didn’t succeed..

My encouragement Gentlemen is to be creative.. make such an impact in her life with what you DO that she’ll remember it 100yrs from now.. Being creative doesn’t take a lot of money… it takes time to think about her!!!! Do it "just because"... no agenda... 

Life is not about how many breaths you take… but how many times your breath is taken away…. Gentlemen.. Spend the entire week (and the entire year) taking her breath away…

Editor - DNYC

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Super Bowl



Its superbowl week..... A mans REAL fathers day... Big screen TV, Beer, Food and Friends

I'm not a football zealot.. I don't buy the NFL package on Dish or play fantasy football at work. I played in High School like a lot of men, but those days are long in the rear view mirror.. I Am a NY Football Giants fan however, when their season is over my interest easily goes to the NBA NY Knicks or the NCAA (Duke blue Devils / UNC TarHeels..... a house divided)... This time of the year, I also have an eye on Florida and the NY Yankees beginning spring training.. I guess I'll always be NY Born, NY Bread, Yankee fitted until I'm dead...

With all of the hype surrounding the game and people making plans for Superbowl parties. I want to discuss not so much the game but the ladies... I don't know anyone who REALLY watches the superbowl.. It's sort of like a big tailgate party.. A social event..... Yes the game is on, but no one is really paying attention to the play by play at a superbowl party.. Most times the Game is anti-climatic given all of the hype..

Given that its more of a social event we must not forget as Gentlemen not to leave the ladies out...  This is no time to let your boorish behavior come out... sights, sounds and smells coming out of every orifice of your body is just not cute. Gorging on all of the food and drink without taking time to consider others may want those buffalo wings is not only uncivilized but inconsiderate as well ...

I'm not saying squash your fun... or even be something you're not.... Just take a look over your shoulder and consider the women who will be at these superbowl festivities and consider their comfort... Being a gentlemen isn't only about what you do on a date... Its about taking time to consider others as you move through life.. Offer the ladies something to drink, make sure they have enough to eat and don't allow your male friends to be rude or inconsiderate..... If you're going to married friends or a females home for your superbowl festivities... Ask if you can help in some way, and bring something... do not arrive at someones home empty handed...

Remember Gentlemen... we're trying to move the standard beyond the vulgar obnoxiousness...

Enjoy your superbowl... but don't stop being a Gentlemen..

Editor - DNYC

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Health Watch - Prostate Cancer






Prostate cancer is the most common cancer among American men and, behind lung cancer, is the #2 cause of cancer death among men. Though the risk for prostate cancer and other prostate problems is strongly related to genetics, other controllable lifestyle factors seem to be even more important. Factors associated with a higher risk for prostate disease and cancer include:

High blood pressure (hypertension)
Diabetes (Type 2 or adult-onset diabetes)
High insulin levels in the blood
Low levels of high-density lipoproteins (HDLs)
Having a "spare tire" or "beer belly"
Sedentary lifestyle
Diet high in fat, especially saturated fat
Excessive intake of calcium, especially from dairy sources
Diet high in red meat
History of kidney stones
History of sexually transmitted disease
Exposure to the heavy metal cadmium
Exposure to agricultural chemicals
Allergies
Aging
Like breast cancer, prostate cancer is a "hormone-sensitive" disease. Its development and progress is strongly influenced by the various natural (made by the body) and artificial (from food and environment) hormones in the body. Many lifestyle factors such as diet, physical activity, and stress management address how the body metabolizes these important and influential hormones.

The prostate is a walnut-sized muscular gland that secretes a thin, milky, fluid that lubricates the urethra (duct for urine and ejaculatory fluids) and helps sperm survive after ejaculation. It surrounds the urethra and for this reason, conditions affecting the size or shape of the prostate directly affect urinary and sexual function.

The prostate is sensitive both to "male" hormones (androgens such as testosterone, dihyrdrotestosterone, and androstenedione) and to "female" hormones (prolactin or estrogens such as estradiol and estrone). Though these are called "male" and "female" hormones, they all naturally occur in both men and women. It is their relative balance that results in good health or in discomfort.

The relative balance of these hormones is influenced by aging, dietary intake, detoxification function of the liver and intestines, exercise, smoking, and exposure to hormone-like chemicals from food and the environment.

Prostate cancer is a hormone-sensitive cancer (as is breast cancer) that will probably affect one in six American men. Each year roughly 200,000 American men are diagnosed with it, and over 30,000 die from it. However, because prostate cancer tends to progress slowly, it is not always life-threatening. Many men wait rather than having medical intervention immediately after their diagnosis, or opt for lifestyle changes.

In its early stages, prostate cancer does not usually cause symptoms. When symptoms do occur, they can include any or all of the following:

Needing to urinate frequently, especially at night
Difficulty starting urination or holding back urine
Inability to urinate
Weak or interrupted flow of urine
Painful or burning urination
Difficulty having an erection
Painful ejaculation
Blood in the urine or semen
Frequent pain or stiffness in the lower back, hips, or upper thighs
These symptoms are not specific for prostate cancer. The first four, especially, are also typically seen in cases of prostate enlargement, a benign condition. The other symptoms may also be caused by infections or prostatitis. If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, it is important to see a doctor immediately.

Dietary Causes

There is so much convincing evidence on the role of diet in prostate cancer that Dr. William Fair and his colleagues from the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center suggest that prostate cancer may be considered a "nutritional disease."

Dietary factors associated with a higher risk for prostate cancer include:
High level of total fat in the diet
High intake of saturated fats (primarily animal fats)
Excessive calcium intake
High milk consumption (milk is a source of calcium, cholesterol, and animal fat, all of which may be risk factors for prostate cancer when excessive)
High intake of red meat (especially grilled, fried, and broiled meats, which contain carcinogens)
Low intake of fruits and vegetables
Low intake of mustard family vegetables, which contain especially protective nutrients
Low intakes of selenium, vitamin E, lycopene, and other dietary antioxidants
Dietary factors associated with a lower risk for prostate cancer include:
High intake of soy foods (tofu, tempeh, texturized vegetable protein or TVP, soy nuts, soy milk, soy cheese, soy dogs, soy burgers, etc.)
High intake of the antioxidants selenium and vitamin E
High intake of whole grains, nuts, and seeds
Vegetarian diet
Adequate intake of vitamin D
Frequent consumption of tomatoes, especially cooked tomatoes in products such as tomato paste and tomato sauce, particularly if the tomato products also contain a little oil
Drinking green tea
A special note for African-American men:

African-American men develop prostate cancer twice as frequently as Caucasian men, and though genetics may play a role, dietary differences between these groups of men are clearly involved. In African-American men, greater consumption of foods high in animal fat is even more strongly linked to prostate cancer than it is for men in general.

One reason for this may be that African-American men, on average, consume 2 to 3 times as much of a particular group of carcinogenic substances (called heterocyclic amines) that are found in fried, broiled, and grilled meats. It is therefore particularly important for African-American men to limit their intakes of these foods.

Nutrient Needs

Soyfoods

Organic soyfoods (such as soymilk, tofu, tempeh, texturized vegetable protein or TVP, soy burgers, and soy dogs) can play an important protective role against prostate cancer. A major study of diet and prostate cancer among men in 42 countries found that soyfoods were the single most significant dietary influence reducing the number of deaths from prostate cancer.

Soyfoods contain "isoflavones," natural substances with weak estrogen-like activity that seem to modulate how the body responds to the estrogens naturally produced by men and women. Consumption of soyfoods is associated with lower rates of numerous hormone-related diseases, including prostate and breast cancer.

Among Japanese men, the lower incidence of prostate disease and lower rate of death from prostate cancer are thought to be related to their lifelong intake of isoflavones, and in American Adventist men, a high intake of soymilk is associated with a 70 percent reduction in prostate cancer risk.

The isoflavones in these simple but remarkable foods show a wide variety of protective effects in laboratory studies, inhibiting the responses of normal prostate cells and of cancer cells to many stimuli that would usually cause them to grow abnormally.

Research published in Cancer Epidemiological Markers supports the substantial protective benefit to be derived from eating soy foods. In this study of 398 Chinese men (133 men with prostate cancer and 265 age and residential community matched controls between the ages of 50 and 89), those consuming the most tofu had a 42% lower risk of developing prostate cancer compared to those consuming the least. When researchers checked the relationship between the soy isoflavones, genistein and daidzen, which are found not only in tofu, but in soy beans and other foods made from them, those consuming the most genistein were found to have a 47% lower risk for prostate cancer, while those consuming the most daidzen had a 44% lower risk.

Further support for isoflavones' protective effects against prostate cancer comes from a study published in Cancer Epidemiological Biomarkers and Prevention (Kurahashi N, Iwasaki M, et al.)

In this 9-year Japanese study involving 43,509 men ranging in age from 45 to 74 years, men eating the most soy food and miso (and therefore consuming more genistein and daidzein, the isoflavones found in soybeans) had a significantly lower risk of localized prostate cancer.

Among the men who were older than 60, the protective effect was strongest. Men whose diets provided the most genistein had a 48% reduced risk of localized prostate cancer compared to men food delivered the least of this isoflavone. Similarly, men consuming the most daidzein and soy foods showed 50% and 48% reduced risks of localized prostate cancer, respectively, compared to men consuming the least daidzein and soy foods.

Additional research has further confirmed isoflavones' prostate-protective effects. (Nagata Y,Sonoda T, et al., J Nutr.)

This case-control study of 200 Japanese men with different stages of prostate cancer-one man in Stage 1, 131 men in Stage 2, 44 men in Stage 3, and 24 men in Stage 4-compared the men's soy isoflavone intake with that of 200 healthy male controls.

Diets that delivered the most isoflavones (89.9 mg/day) from soyfoods-tofu, natto, miso soup, bean curd, soy flour, soy milk, soy sauce, edamame, and soy bean sprouts-were associated with a 58% lower risk of prostate cancer compared to diets providing the least isoflavones (less than 30.5 mg/day).

Practical Tip: All traditional soyfoods are rich sources of isoflavones, providing 30-40 mg per serving. Soy sauce and soy oil, however, contain no isoflavones.

Soyfoods Shown to Stop the Form of Testosterone that Promotes Prostate Cancer

A molecule formed in the intestine when soy is digested can attach to and completely stop DHT, the potent form of testosterone that stimulates prostate cancer, acne and male pattern baldness, suggests an animal study published in the April 2004 issue of Biological Reproduction.

The molecule, named equol, is formed from one of the main isoflavones abundant in soy, the phytoestrogen daidzein. Equol promotes the best of all male worlds as it prevents only the dangerous DHT, but not beneficial testosterone, from binding to the androgen (male hormone) receptor.

According to Kenneth Setchell, the researcher who first identified equol in humans 20 years ago, "These findings are of immense clinical importance because blocking the action of the potent androgen DHT has been one of the holy grails of the pharmaceutical industry as a strategy for treating prostate cancer and other related diseases."

While the pharmaceutical industry has developed drugs that inhibit the enzyme that converts testosterone to DHT, the drugs are costly and have unpleasant side effects. Equol doesn't prevent DHT from being produced, but completely inactivates it, achieving the same goal without affecting normal testosterone metabolism and without negative side effects." Directly binding and inactivating DHT without influencing testosterone gives equol the ability to reduce many of the harmful effects of androgens without affecting the beneficial ones," said Robert J. Handa, senior author of the study.

The researchers demonstrated that in male rats, injections of equol reduced the size of the prostate. The rats' testes were removed to eliminate all DHT production. When investigators injected these rats with equol, nothing happened; when they DHT into the rats, their prostates grew, but when the rats were given equol along with the DHT, no prostate growth occurred-the equol prevented the DHT from stimulating prostate growth.

The researchers think equol's protective action may explain why men in Japan, who typically and regularly eat soy, rarely develop prostate cancer despite the fact that, like men in the Western world, as they age, Japanese men suffer equally from BPH (benign prostatic hyperplasia).

The researchers, hopeful that, because of DHT's importance in both acne and male pattern baldness, equol may offer a means of promoting healthy skin and preventing hair loss, have begun further studies to evaluate equol's potential in the treatment of these and other androgen-influenced conditions.

Soy-rich Diet Lowers PSA, but Not Testosterone

Since the lowest incidence of prostate cancer is found in Asian countries where soyfoods are a dietary staple, and a recent meta-analysis published in the International Journal of Cancer (2005, Vol. 117, pp. 667 - 669) found that men who regularly ate soyfoods had a 30% lower risk of the cancer, researchers in Hawaii decided to put men on a soy-rich diet and evaluate its effects on the prostate cancer marker, PSA.

Soy contains phytonutrients called isoflavones, which exert mild estrogen-like action-a possible concern for men-so researchers also wanted to see if the men's testosterone levels would be affected by a high-soy diet. They weren't.

Led by Gertraud Maskarinec from the Cancer Research Center of Hawaii, the researchers recruited 23 men (ranging in age from 58-65 years) and randomized them to receive either a high soy diet (two servings of soy per day) or a low soy diet (usual diet) for three months. At the end of the first diet period, the men went back to their normal eating habits for one month and then crossed over to eat the other diet for a further three months.

In contrast to the low soy diet, during the high-soy diet, PSA levels dropped 14% with no change in testosterone.

Whether the men would enjoy soyfoods and thus actually eat the soy-rich diet was also a concern. Adherence was assessed by soy calendars, 24-hour dietary recalls, and urine tests measuring isoflavone excretion, which went up on the soy-rich diet. The results were so good that researchers noted," The high adherence as shown by three measures of compliance in this pilot trial demonstrated the feasibility of an intervention based on soy foods among free-living men."

Soy Isoflavones Protectively Alter Men's Estrogen Metabolism

Research suggests that isoflavone phytonutrients found in soybeans may protectively alter men's metabolism of estrogen, lowering men's ratio of 2 hydroxy estrogens to 16 hydroxyestrone (2:16 OH-E1). (Yes, real men produce some estrogen, and in men, the prostate is the primary locus of estrogen production.) Since the 2 hydroxy metabolites of estrogen are less likely to initiate hormone-related cancers than estrogen's 16 hydroxyestrone metabolites, soy's effect of increasing the amount of 2 hydroxy estrogen produced in relation to the amount of 16 hydroxyestrone made in the prostate may help prevent prostate cancer. (Hamilton-Reeves JM, Rebello SA, et al. J Nutr.)

Earlier research linking soy to protection against prostate cancer has suggested that the weak estrogenic activity of soy's isoflavones, which may act to reduce testosterone levels and inhibit 5-alpha-reductase (an enzyme involved in converting testosterone to its most potent form, DHT, which has been linked to prostate growth and male baldness), might also be protective.(Kurahashi N, Iwasaki M, et al., Cancer Epidemiol Biomarkers Prev.)

Practical Tip: Protect your prostate health by making soy foods a staple part of your healthy way of eating. Not a fan of tofu? Soy milk is now an available option, even at most espresso stands. You can take packets of miso to work with you, just as you would any dehydrated soup mix. Miso not only makes a delicious broth on its own, but can be sprinkled like seasoning over brown rice or any grain, any soup, or sautéed vegetable to add great flavor. Try a tofu burger for lunch. Experiment with a few brands till you find one you really enjoy; some (we like BocaBurgers) now do a pretty reasonable job of mimicking the taste and texture of beef. Soy nuts can also go with you to the office for a quick snack.

Avocado Inhibits the Growth of Androgen-Dependent and Androgen-Independent Prostate Cancer Cells

Not only are avocados a rich source of monounsaturated fatty acids including oleic acid, which has recently been shown to offer significant protection against another form of cancer, breast cancer, but these fruits also contain the highest amount of the carotenoid lutein of all commonly eaten fruits, as well as measurable amounts of related carotenoids (zeazxanthin, alpha-carotene and beta-carotene) plus significant quantities of tocopherols (vitamin E).

In a laboratory study published in the January 2005 issue of the Journal of Nutritional Biochemistry, an extract of avocado containing these carotenoids and tocopherols inhibited the growth of both androgen-dependent and androgen-independent prostate cancer cells.

But when researchers tried exposing the prostate cancer cells to lutein alone, the single carotenoid did not prevent cancer cell growth and replication.

Not only was the whole matrix of carotenoids and tocopherols in avocado necessary for its ability to kill prostate cancer cells, but the researchers also noted that the significant amount of monounsaturated fat in avocado plays an important role. Carotenoids are lipid (fat)-soluble, which means fat must be present to ensure that these bioactive carotenoids will be absorbed into the bloodstream. Just as Nature intends, avocado delivers the whole heath-promoting package.

Chili peppers

Red chili peppers' capsaicin, the compound responsible for their pungent heat, stops the spread of prostate cancer cells through a variety of mechanisms, indicates a study published in the March 15, 2006 issue of Cancer Research . Capsaicin triggers suicide in both primary types of prostate cancer cell lines, those whose growth is stimulated by male hormones and those not affected by them. In addition, capsaicin lessens the expression of prostate-specific antigen (PSA), inhibits the ability of the most potent form of testosterone, dihydrotestosterone, to activate PSA, and directly inhibits PSA transcription, causing PSA levels to plummet.

The dose effective for test animals was equivalent to 400 milligrams of capsaicin, three times a week, for a man weighing about 200 pounds. After four weeks of receiving capsaicin, prostate cancer tumor growth and size decreased significantly in the animals.

One warning: Excessive intake of hot chilies has been linked to stomach cancer, so don't go overboard.

Grapefruit's naringenin repairs DNA, may protect against prostate cancer

Naringenin, a flavonoid concentrated in grapefruit, helps repair damaged DNA in human prostate cancer cells (cell line LNCaP), reports a lab study published in the February 2006 issue of the Journal of Nutritional Biochemistry.

The risk of prostate cancer, the most commonly diagnosed cancer in men in the U.S, increases with age since the older we become, the more times our cells have divided and the greater the chance for DNA mutations to occur. DNA repair is one of the body's primary defense mechanisms against the development of cancer since it removes potentially cancer-causing mutations in cells.

Naringenin helps restore health to damaged DNA by inducing two enzymes that repair DNA during the replication stage. These enzymes, 8-oxoguanine-DNA glycosylase 1 (hOGG1), and DNA polymerase beta (DNA poly beta), are both involved in the DNA base excision repair (BER) pathway.

In this study, the researchers measured the repair that occurs when damaged cells are exposed to naringenin by measuring the amounts of two compounds, deoxyguanosine (dG) and 8-hydroxydeoxyguanosine (8-OH-dG). The former is found in normal DNA; the latter, a product of hydroxyl radical attack, is found in damaged DNA. After 24 hours of exposure to 80 micromoles per liter of naringenin, the ratio of 8-OH-dG to dG had decreased by 24%.

The scientists in this study exposed cell cultures to 80 micromoles per liter, an amount we cannot achieve by consuming grapefruit since research indicates that only between 2 and 15% flavonoids in the food we consume are absorbed in the GI tract, and plasma concentrations after eating flavonoid-rich foods range from 0.5 to 1 micromole per liter.

Fortunately, however, the researchers also demonstrated that the concentration of naringenin inside the cells that was needed for its beneficial effects was only 5% of the amount in the medium, and this amount is physiologically achievable in our tissues.

Unlike many other cancers, prostate cancer is slow growing initially and often remains undetectable for a long time. Enjoying grapefruit regularly may be one way to prevent its progression by promoting the repair of damaged DNA in prostate cells, thus preventing them from becoming cancerous.

Cranberries

Enjoy whole cranberries, not just cranberry juice. Cranberry presscake (the material remaining after squeezing juice from the berries), when fed to mice bearing human breast cancer cells, has previously been shown to decrease the growth and metastasis of tumors, and a new study published in the June 2004 issue of the Journal of Nutrition suggests compounds in whole cranberries also inhibit prostate, skin, lung and brain cancer cells as well.

Androgen-dependent prostate cancer cells were inhibited the most (just 10 mg of a warm water extract of cranberry presscake inhibited their growth by 50%). With androgen-independent prostate cancer cells and estrogen-independent breast cancer cells, a larger amount was needed but produced the same beneficial effect (250 mg of cranberry presscake extract inhibited their growth by 50%).

Researchers concluded that the active compounds in whole cranberry prevent cancer by blocking cell cycle progression and inducing cells to undergo apoptosis (programmed cell death).

Green Tea

Green tea polyphenols halt prostate cancer at multiple levels. The polyphenols in green tea help prevent the spread of prostate cancer by mobilizing several molecular pathways that shut down the proliferation and spread of tumor cells, while also inhibiting the growth of blood vessels that supply the cancer with nourishment, according to research published in Cancer Research.

Green tea polyphenols:

decrease insulin-like growth factor-1 (IGF-1), while increasing levels of IGF binding protein-3, which binds IGF-1, further diminishing its activity. (Increased levels of IGF-1 are associated not only with prostate cancer, but cancers of the breast, lung and colon.)
inhibit key cell survival proteins, promoting apoptosis or programmed cell death in cancer cells.
reduce the expression of several compounds (urokinase plasminogen activator and matrix metalloproteinase 2 and 9) involved in the metastasis and spread of cancer cells.
reduce the amount of vascular endothelial growth factor (VEGF), which develops new blood vessels to carry nutrients to developing tumors.
All these effects were seen in this animal study within 6 months of continuous infusion. While obviously impractical for humans, the study suggests that daily consumption of green tea may be highly protective.

Red wine

When researchers at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center in Seattle compared data on alcohol consumption collected from 753 prostate cancer patients aged 40-64 years old with similar data from a group of 703 age-matched controls without the disease, no clear association was seen between prostate cancer risk and overall alcohol consumption.

But, for each glass or red wine consumed per week, a 6% decrease was noted in the risk of developing prostate cancer, according to the study published in the January 2005 issue of the International Journal of Cancer.

Since no such association was seen with beer or other liquor, the researchers speculate that the flavonoids in red wine may help prevent tumor cell growth.

If you enjoy a glass of wine, choose red. And remember, benefits are seen with consumption of a glass or two daily-drinking more than 2 alcoholic beverages a day may be harmful to your health.

Lycopene

Lycopene is a "carotenoid," a natural antioxidant coloring found in fruits and vegetables that helps protect them from damage. In the body it is normally concentrated in the prostate and testes, and its consumption is associated with a lower prostate cancer risk. Interestingly, lycopene is the only carotenoid not found to be naturally lower in the blood of men versus women.
Low blood levels of lycopene are strongly associated with a higher risk for prostate cancer. These observations all seem to indicate a special protective role for lycopene in the hormone-sensitive prostate gland. Smoking, alcohol consumption, and lipid-lowering drugs decrease blood lycopene levels. But heating tomato foods before consumption and consuming tomato foods with moderate amounts of fat increases the bioavailability of lycopene.

More than 80 percent of lycopene consumed in the United States comes from tomatoes, although pink grapefruit, guava, and watermelon are also rich sources of lycopene.

Tomatoes have been shown to be helpful in reducing the risk of prostate cancer in men, and it was thought that their protective effect was primarily due to their lycopene content. However, a 14-month study published in the November 2003 issue of the Journal of the National Cancer Institute has underscored the importance of whole tomatoes, not lycopene alone, in the prevention of prostate cancer. In this study, rats fed a lycopene-rich diet and treated with N-methyl-N-nitrosourea (a carcinogen) and testosterone to induce prostate cancer had a similar risk of death from prostate cancer as rats fed a control diet. In contrast, rats fed whole tomato powder were 26% less likely to die of prostate cancer. By the end of the study, 80% of the control group and 72% of the rats fed lycopene had succumbed to prostate cancer, while only 62% of the rats fed whole tomato powder had died.

In addition to the controls and those rats receiving lycopene or tomato powder, each group was also divided into two sub-groups, one of which was given 20% less food than the other sub-group. Rats on the energy-restricted, tomato-based diet fared best of all, showing a 32% drop in their risk of dying from prostate cancer.

Researchers concluded this was due to the fact that tomatoes contain not merely lycopene, but a variety of protective phytochemicals and suggest that the lycopene found in human prostate tissue and the blood of animals and humans who remain free of prostate cancer may indicate exposure to higher amounts of not just lycopene but other compounds working in synergy with it. Study leader, Dr. Steven Clinton, Ohio State University, commented, "Our findings strongly suggest that risks of poor dietary habits cannot be reversed simply by taking a pill…if we want the health benefits of tomatoes, we should eat tomatoes or tomato products and not rely on lycopene supplements alone." In an accompanying editorial, Peter H. Gann, of the Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center at Northwestern University in Chicago, and Frederick Khachik, of the University of Maryland, College Park, remarked that this study supports those who advocate whole foods in the debate about whether cancer prevention is best achieved with whole foods or concentrated single compounds. They point out that carotenoids and other phytochemicals evolved as sets of interacting compounds, and that this complexity limits the usefulness of reductionist approaches that seek to identify single protective compounds.

More Studies Show Tomatoes Protective against Prostate Cancer

In animal studies, published in the April 14 on-line edition of the FASEB Journal (the official publication of the Federation of American Societies for Experimental Biology) lycopene and vitamin E were also found to reduce prostate cancer risk. Vitamin E reduced androgen (male hormone) signaling without affecting normal androgen metabolism, and lycopene down-regulated 5-alpha reductase, the enzyme that converts testosterone to the much more potent, and prostate cancer-promoting DHT. In addition, lycopene down-regulated the production in the prostate of two inflammatory chemicals, the cytokines IGF-I and IL-6, both of which are risk factors for prostate cancer.
A meta-analysis of 21 studies published in Cancer Epidemiology Biomarkers and Prevention confirms that eating tomatoes, especially cooked tomatoes, provides protection against prostate cancer. (Meta-analyses are considered the gold standard in medical research since, by combining the results of numerous studies, they integrate the results that occurred in different settings and include a much larger group of people, so they are thought to provide a more accurate assessment.)

When the data from all 21 studies was combined, men who ate the highest amounts of raw tomatoes were found to have an 11% reduction in risk for prostate cancer. Those eating the most cooked tomato products fared even better with a 19% reduction in prostate cancer risk. Even eating just one 6-ounce serving a day of raw tomato provided some benefit-a reduction in prostate cancer risk of 3%.

How Tomatoes Protect against Cancer

New research by Dr. Joseph Levy and colleagues from Ben-Gurion University of the Negev, Beer-Sheva, Israel, may have identified the unique mechanism through which lycopene protects against cancer: activating cancer-preventive phase II enzymes.

When the researchers incubated breast and liver cancer cells with lycopene, the carotenoid triggered the production and activity of the phase II detoxification enzymes (NAD(P)H:quinone oxidoreductase (NQ01) and glutamylcysteine synthetase (GCS). Lycopene ramped up production and activity of these protective enzymes by causing the expression of a reporter gene called luciferase that then activated the "antioxidant response element" in other genes that encode the enzymes, thus causing the genes to direct increased enzyme production.

In contrast, other carotenoids including beta-carotene, astaxanthin and phytoene did not have this effect. Since much epidemiological evidence indicates that lycopene acts synergistically with other phytochemicals to give tomatoes their protective effects, and recent studies have shown that eating tomato products prevents cancer more effectively than taking lycopene alone, the researchers concluded that other carotenoids stimulate phase II enzymes via different pathways from that used by lycopene.

Tomatoes and Broccoli Team Up to Fight Prostate Cancer

Tomatoes and broccoli-two vegetables separately recognized for their cancer-fighting capabilities-are even more successful against prostate cancer when working as a team in the daily diet, shows a study published in Cancer Research.

"When tomatoes and broccoli are eaten together, we see an additive effect. We think it's because different bioactive compounds in each food work on different anti-cancer pathways," said John Erdman, Professor of Food Science and Human Nutrition at the University of Illinois.

Starting one month before male rats were implanted with prostate tumors, Erdman and doctoral candidate Kirstie Canene-Adams fed the animals one of 5 different diets. Then they compared the cancer-preventive effects of the diets to treatment with finasteride, a drug commonly prescribed for men with enlarged prostates, or surgical castration.

The diets contained one of the following: 10% tomato, 10% broccoli, 5% tomato plus 5% broccoli, 10% tomato plus 10% broccoli, or lycopene (23 or 224 nmol/g diet).

The tomato and broccoli given as powders made from the whole vegetable to compare the effects of eating the whole food to simply consuming one active compound as a nutritional supplement- in this case, lycopene, a carotenoid found in tomatoes.

After 22 weeks, when the rats' were sacrificed and their prostate tumors weighed, the 10% tomato/broccoli combination was shown to greatly outperform all other diets, shrinking prostate tumors by 52%.

Broccoli alone decreased tumor weight by 42%, and tomato alone by 34%.

Lycopene alone (23 or 224 nmol/g diet) came in last, reducing tumor weight by 7% and 18% respectively.

Only castration-a last resort option for most men, although it resulted in a 62% reduction in prostate tumor weight-approached the level of protection delivered by the tomato/broccoli diet. Said Erdman, "As nutritionists, it was very exciting to compare this drastic surgery to diet and see that tumor reduction was similar."

"Older men with slow-growing prostate cancer who have chosen watchful waiting over chemotherapy and radiation should seriously consider altering their diets to include more tomatoes and broccoli," said Canene-Adams.

To get the prostate health benefits seen in this study, a 55-year-old man would need to consume 1.4 cups of raw broccoli and 2.5 cups of fresh tomato, 1 cup of tomato sauce or ½ cup of tomato paste daily, said Canene-Adams.

Erdman noted that this study shows eating whole foods is better than taking isolated nutrients. "It's better to eat tomatoes than to take a lycopene supplement-and cooked tomatoes may be better than raw tomatoes. Chopping and heating make the cancer-fighting constituents of tomatoes and broccoli more bioavailable," he said.

Practical Tips: While the phytonutrients in tomatoes become more concentrated when they are cooked into a sauce or paste, and more bioavailable when eaten with a little oil, those in broccoli will be greatly reduced if this vegetable is overcooked. Steam or healthy sauté broccoli no more than 5 minutes.

Also, broccoli's cancer-preventive compounds form after it has been cut, but heat denatures the enzyme necessary for this process. For optimal nutrient formation, cut broccoli florets in half or into quarters, depending on their initial size, and let sit for 5 minutes before cooking.

Broccoli and tomatoes can make a delicious team at virtually any meal or snack:

Healthy sauté broccoli and onion, then add to your favorite breakfast omelet and serve with grilled tomatoes.
Enjoy a bowl of tomato soup along with a salad including broccoli florets for lunch.
Add lightly steamed broccoli florets to the tomato-paste toppings on your favorite pizza.
Healthy sauté broccoli florets along with other favorite vegetables, such as onions and mushrooms, add to pasta sauce and use to top whole wheat pasta or brown rice.
For a quick snack, serve raw broccoli florets along with the carrot and celery sticks, dip and crackers, and toast your prostate's health with a glass of tomato juice.
The Right Amount of Vitamin D

A study published in the January 2004 issue of the International Journal of Cancer involving more than 2,000 men in Norway, Finland and Sweden, found that those whose blood levels of vitamin D were either too low (>19nmol/l) or too high (<80nmol/l) had an increased prostate cancer risk. Men whose average serum concentration of vitamin D ranged from 40-60 nmol/l had the lowest risk of prostate cancer. The researchers theorize that when vitamin D serum concentration is too low, this leads to low tissue concentration of vitamin D and weakened control of cell division in prostate cells. When vitamin D levels are too high, however, this may lead to an increase in the production of the enzyme 24-hyrdoxylase, which inactivates vitamin D.

So what does this mean in terms of how much vitamin D-rich food a man should eat? It depends upon where he lives and how old he is. Since the process through which our bodies make vitamin D begins when our skin is exposed to sunlight, regular consumption of foods rich in vitamin D is especially important for men who live in northern latitudes, are homebound, or wear sunscreen or clothing that completely covers the body. Regular consumption of vitamin D-rich foods is especially important for older men who live in northern latitudes since the production of vitamin D precursors in the skin, and thus our ability to make the vitamin, decreases with age.

Foods rich in vitamin D include sardines, salmon, tuna, shrimp, cod, snapper, halibut, eggs and vitamin D-fortified milk products. If these are all staples in your diet and you live in an area where sunshine is the norm year round, it might be wise to ask your doctor to check your serum concentration of 25(OH)-vitamin D to be sure it is not excessive. If you eat few of these foods and live in the sun-sparse north, you might also consider having your physician check to be sure your serum level of 25(OH)-vitamin D is not too low and adding a serving of vitamin D-rich food to your daily menu.

Vitamin E

In addition to its well-known protective effects on cardiovascular function, vitamin E may provide specific antioxidant protection for prostate health. Especially among smokers, low blood levels of vitamin E relate to a higher risk of death from prostate cancer, and higher blood levels correlate to a lower incidence of prostate cancer as well as a reduced risk of death from prostate cancer.

In the laboratory, prostate and breast cancer cells exposed to higher levels of vitamin E grow more slowly and are more likely to die than those exposed to lower levels. This fat-soluble vitamin is another important link in the nutritional chain of prostate protection.

Research presented at the annual meeting of the American Association for Cancer Research, held March 27-31, 2004, in Orlando, FL, found that people who eat the most vitamin E-containing foods are the least likely to have bladder or prostate cancer.

Bladder cancer, the fourth leading cause of death in men in the U.S. is also a leading cause of death in other industrialized countries such as Canada, France, Denmark, Italy, and Spain.

Reporting on the results of a study conducted at the University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center and Texas Woman's University, researcher Ladia M. Hernandez noted that "High intake of vitamin E from dietary sources alone was associated with a 42% reduced risk of bladder cancer, whereas high intake of vitamin E from dietary sources and supplements combined reduced the risk by 44%."

In the case control study from which these statistics were derived, Hernandez and colleagues developed a database based on published values of the tocopherol (vitamin E) content of foods and interviewed 468 bladder cancer patients and 534 healthy, cancer-free controls about their dietary and supplemental intake of the vitamin.

In a second study, data collected by researchers from the U.S. National Cancer Institute, the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center and the National Public Health Institute of Finland showed that two vitamin E fractions, alpha- and gamma-tocopherol, lowered the risk of prostate cancer, alpha tocopherol by up to 53% and gamma-tocopherol by as much as 39%.

In this study, 100 men with prostate cancer and 200 without were selected from the Alpha-Tocopherol, Beta-Carotene Cancer Prevention Study cohort of 29,133 Finnish men, aged between 50 and 69 years.

Prior to this, the ATBC study had already demonstrated a 32% reduction in the rate of prostate cancer in men who took 50 mg of the alpha-tocopherol fraction of vitamin E daily for a period of five to eight years.

In the new study, men not taking supplements were included to evaluate serum levels of alpha- and gamma-tocopherol derived from their diets. The men who were randomized to receive a vitamin E supplement as part of the ATBC trial and who also had the highest serum vitamin E levels at baseline, indicating their diets supplied the most vitamin E, were found to have the lowest risk of prostate cancer.

Taken together, the two studies appear to support an increase in dietary alpha-tocopherol, but it should be noted that this form of the vitamin is typically found in greater concentrations in the blood than the gamma form largely because a protein in the liver called "alpha-tocopherol transfer protein" binds alpha-tocopherol and transfers it into the plasma. Our thought at the World's Healthiest Foods is "Why limit yourself to one fraction of vitamin E when Mother Nature supplies them all, perfectly balanced in delicious foods?"

More Research Confirms Dietary Vitamin E Superior to Supplements for Protection against Prostate Cancer and Alzheimer's Disease

While the type of vitamin E usually used in supplements is alpha-tocopherol, research published in the December 2004 issue of the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences indicates another form of vitamin E, gamma-tocopherol, but not alpha-tocopherol, inhibits prostate cancer cell proliferation, without affecting healthy prostate cells.

Plus, the anti-cancer effect of gamma-tocopherol, when combined with other forms of vitamin E such as delta-tocopherol, appears to be additive.

Vitamin E is a generic term for a family of at least eight structurally related molecules. When the first research was conducted on vitamin E by the Shute brothers early in the 19th century, in rats, one fraction of vitamin E, alpha tocopherol, appeared more potent since it was necessary for successful pregnancy and production of rat offspring. For this reason, the Shutes named the vitamin "tocopherol," from the Greek word meaning "to give birth."

More recent research has revealed that, in humans, other vitamin E fractions may be even more beneficial. Gamma-tocopherol has been found to exhibit anti-inflammatory effects, which has led researchers to think this fraction may be more cardioprotective than the alpha-tocopherol found in most supplements. Not only is gamma-tocopherol anti-inflammatory, but it is also highly attracted to the nucleus in cells-the site where mutations in the genetic code can promote the development of cancer.

When Dr. Jiang and his team investigated the anti-carcinogenic potential of various forms of vitamin E, they found that gamma-tocopherol, particularly in combination with other forms of vitamin E such as delta-tocopherol, induced apoptosis (cell death) in androgen-sensitive prostate cancer cells within 3 days of treatment. Alpha-tocopherol alone did not have this effect.

The gamma and delta E fractions appear to induce apoptosis by interrupting the synthesis of sphingolipid, a fatty molecule in cell membranes that acts as a signaling messenger to modulate events inside the cell. In the cell membranes of human prostate cancer cells, the interruption of sphingolipid's synthesis by gamma and delta tocopherols causes the cancerous cells to self-destruct, while leaving healthy cells unaffected. Both fractions, as well as alpha tocopherol, are naturally present in foods rich in vitamin E, which include a number of greens (mustard greens, turnip greens, spinach, collard greens, and kale), sunflower seeds and almonds.

A high intake of vitamin E from food, but not from supplements (which usually contain just alpha-tocopherol) is also inversely associated with Alzheimer's disease. Rush University's Martha Clare Morris, Sc.D., lead nutrition researcher for CHAP, the Chicago Health and Aging Project, found a 67% lower risk of Alzheimer's in subjects with the highest intakes of vitamin E from food and concluded: "various tocopherol forms rather than alpha-tocopherol alone may be important in the vitamin E protective association with Alzheimer's disease."

A large human trial has now confirmed the results of earlier in vitro (test tube) and animal studies. In a 5-year study, researchers prospectively investigated if a link existed between intakes of the four tocopherol forms of vitamin E and risk of prostate cancer among 295,344 men, aged between 50 and 71, taking part in the NIH-AARP Diet and Health Study.

Vitamin E is found in 8 forms: 4 tocopherols (alpha, beta, gamma, delta) and 4 tocotrienols (alpha, beta, gamma, delta). Alpha-tocopherol is the main source in supplements; gamma-tocopherol is the most common form in the American diet.

Although regular intake of vitamin E supplements providing up to 800 IU per day did not affect prostate cancer risk, men eating the most foods providing gamma-tocopherol were found to have a 32% lower risk of advanced prostate cancer compared to men eating the least gamma-tocopherol-rich foods. (Wright ME, Weinstein SJ, et al., Cancer Epidemiol Biomarkers Prev.)

Practical Tip: Nuts and seeds are the most highly concentrated sources of gamma-tocopherol, especially walnuts, flaxseed, pecans, sesame seeds, and pumpkin seeds.

For an outstanding, vitamin E-rich dish you can prepare in less than 10 minutes, try steaming some whole kale leaves (5 minutes), transfer to a bowl, drizzle generously with olive oil, cut into bite-sized pieces, and toss with salt, pepper and walnuts or pumpkin seeds. If desired, top with a splash of lemon juice or balsamic vinegar (3-4 minutes).

Selenium

Selenium is a crucial antioxidant in the body, and higher selenium levels in the body are associated with lower risks for numerous cancers, including prostate cancer. It works closely with vitamin E, and seems to protect prostate (and other) cells and their genetic material from damage by free radicals, heavy metals, and toxins.
Because the evidence from earlier studies with vitamin E and selenium were so promising, a number of larger studies are now in progress, including the SELECT (Selenium and Vitamin E Cancer Prevention Trial) Prostate Cancer Prevention Trial, the largest trial of its kind to date.

Brassica family vegetables

The members of the brassica family (also called cruciferous) vegetables - including broccoli, kale, cauliflower, cabbage, mustard, horseradish, and Brussels sprouts, as well as broccoli sprouts - provide unique nutrients (called glucosinolates) that support your body's normal detoxification processes, which are necessary for maintaining healthy levels of both "male" and "female" hormones. Even within individual prostate cells, glucosinolates beneficially influence the metabolism of hormones, which may explain why a higher consumption of mustard family vegetables is associated with a lower risk for prostate cancer.

In fact, a study that compared the diets of 602 men under 65 years of age without prostate cancer to 628 men newly diagnosed with prostate cancer found that the men least likely to develop prostate cancer were those who ate three or more servings of cruciferous vegetables every week. These men had a 41% decreased risk of prostate cancer compared with men who ate less than one serving per week, even after the researchers accounted for total vegetable intake.

Indole-3-carbinol (I3C), a naturally occurring component of Brassica vegetables, such as cabbage, broccoli, and Brussels sprouts, has been recognized as a promising anticancer agent against certain reproductive tumor cells. A study published in the December 2003 issue of Cancer, the journal of the American Cancer Society, looked at I3C's effects on cell cycling progression and cancer cell proliferation in human prostate cancer cells. I3C was shown to suppress the growth of prostate cancer cells in a dose-dependent manner by blocking several important steps in cell cycling and also to inhibit the production of prostate specific antigen, a protein produced by the prostate whose rising levels may indicate prostate cancer. Researchers noted that the results of this study demonstrate that "I3C has a potent antiproliferative effect" in human prostate cancer cells, which qualifies it as "a potential chemotherapeutic agent" against human prostate cancer.

Cruciferous Vegetables Help Lower Risk of Certain Aggressive Prostate Cancers

Researchers from Canada and the U.S. evaluated the association between prostate cancer risk and intake of fruits and vegetables in 29,361 men in the Prostate, Lung, Colorectal and Ovarian Cancer Screening Trial. While there was no relationship found between overall prostate cancer risk and fruit and vegetable consumption, there was a relationship found between aggressive stage III and stage IV cancers that had expanded beyond the prostate gland (called extraprostatic prostate cancers) and vegetable intake. Consuming at least one weekly serving of cruciferous vegetables was associated with a near 40% reduction in risk of stage III and stage IV tumors risk, with broccoli and cauliflower offering the most protection. Men eating broccoli more than once a week were 45% less likely to develop stage III and IV prostate cancers, and eating cauliflower more than once a week conferred a 52% reduction in stage III and stage IV prostate cancer risk.(Kirsh VA,Peters U, et al., J Natl Cancer Inst.)

Vegetable Fiber

Not only how much fiber, but the source of the fiber a man consumes may affect his risk of prostate cancer, suggests a study published in the March 2004 issue of the International Journal of Cancer.

An Italian multi-center, case control study of 2,745 men aged 46-74 (1,294 men with prostate cancer and 1451 controls) found that while men with the highest intake of all kinds of fiber had a 7% lower risk of developing prostate cancer, those men who obtained most of their fiber from vegetables were 18% less likely to develop prostate cancer.

Fiber from fruits and grains was not associated with a reduction in prostate cancer risk. These associations held regardless of age, family history of prostate cancer, body mass index and education level.

Zinc

Zinc is used by the body in hundreds of processes, and is critical for the normal hormonal, immune system, and genetic function. It is concentrated more highly in the prostate than in any other human tissue, and low levels of zinc in the prostate relate to a higher risk for prostate cancer. Our intake of zinc usually decreases when we age, as does our absorption of zinc from food.
The Controversy over Fats, Fatty Fish, and Omega-3 Fats

No group of nutrients is more controversial than fats when it comes to prostate cancer risk. There are dozens of high-quality research studies in this area, but the results are largely conflicting and confusing. The only two factors that escape confusion are: (1) total amount of fat consumed and (2) amount of saturated fat consumed. If you want to lower your risk of prostate cancer, you need to avoid excessive fat intake, and you also need to avoid excessive intake of saturated fat. For the most part, this saturated fat will come from animal products such as high-fat meat, whole milk, or cream. But outside of these two fat-related factors, the evidence gets very controversial.

Omega-3 essential fats (such as occur in nuts, seeds, especially flaxseeds, and cold-water fish) are very important nutrients. Adequate intake of omega-3s is important for everyone, regardless of prostate cancer risk. However, for many health problems, increased consumption of omega-3s - even very great increases in consumption - lowers risk. This equation does not hold true for risk of prostate cancer risk. High intake of omega-3 fats - especially one specific omega-3 fatty acid called alpha-linolenic acid, or ALA - has been associated in several studies with increased risk of prostate cancer. However, other researchers have found no increase in risk from increased intake of ALA. Several researchers have criticized this whole area of dietary investigation with respect to prostate cancer. As a bottom line, it makes sense to consume ALA-rich foods (including flaxseeds, flax oil, walnuts, walnut oil, and canola oil) in adequate but limited amounts.

For other omega-3 fatty acids, including eicosapentaenoic acid, or EPA, and docosahexaenoic acid, or DHA - research results are also mixed. Many studies find no significant DHA or EPA impact in either direction. But these DHA and EPA studies are further complicated by studies involving risk of prostate cancer and fatty fish intake. Fatty fish like salmon contain especially high levels of DHA and EPA. If DHA and EPA were going to increase or decrease a man's risk of prostate cancer, you would expect high intake of fatty fish to increase or decrease that man's risk as well. In several research studies, fatty fish do not appear to have either effect on the majority of men. However, there is one particular group of men who do appear to have significantly decreased risk when they eat large amounts of fatty fish. This group of men have a particular genetic predisposition, that involves inheritance of an uncommon form of the enzyme cyclo-oxygenase-2 (COX-2). Unless a man knew that he possessed that COX-2 gene variant, he would probably do best to follow the same general advice for fatty fish, EPA, and DHA that applies to the ALA omega-3 fatty acid as well: keep intake EPA and DHA-rich foods (including fatty fish like salmon) to a moderate level, providing adequate but not high amounts of these omega-3 fatty acids.

More Omega-3s, Less Omega-6 Fatty Acids

The standard Western diet is high in omega 6 fatty acids and low in omega 3 fats, typically with an omega 6: omega 3 ratio of at least 20:1. Several recent studies strongly suggest that changing the diet to lower this ratio down towards the 2:1 ratio most scientists believe is ideal could significantly reduce PSA levels and prostate cancer tumor growth rates. (Kobayashi N, Barnard RJ, et al., Clin Cancer Res.); (Brown MD, Hart CA, et al., Br J Cancer).

In one study, researchers compared blood levels of polyunsaturated fats in 476 men diagnosed with prostate cancer and the same number of healthy controls. The highest blood levels of EPA and DHA, the omega-3 fats found in cold water fish, were associated with a 41% reduction in prostate cancer risk, while the highest levels of omega-6 fats correlated with greatly increased risk of prostate cancer. Increased blood levels of the omega-6 metabolites, gamma-linolenic acid and dihomo-gamma-linolenic acid, were associated with a 41% and 54% increase in prostate cancer risk, respectively. To lower your risk of prostate cancer, eat more omega-3 rich fish, and consume less foods rich in omega-6 fats, such meats and products made with corn and safflower oils. (Chavarro JE, Stampfer MJ, et al., Cancer Epidemiol Biomarkers Prev.)

New Research Approach Underscores the Synergistic Fffects of the World's Healthiest Foods: Tomatoes and Broccoli Team Up to Provide Greater Cancer Protection
Finally, a study has examined the effect of eating whole foods in combination instead of isolated nutrients, and guess what-the beneficial synergy among nutrients that results when we consume a variety of healthful foods has got taking single nutrients beat by a mile.

According to this research, presented July 15, 2004, at the two-day WCRF/AICR International Research Conference on Food, Nutrition and Cancer in Washington, D.C., eating broccoli along with tomatoes maximizes the cancer protection both foods provide.

In the study, which will be published in the December 2004 issue of the Journal of Nutrition, rats fed a tomato-and-broccoli combo had way less prostate tumor growth than rats given diets containing either food alone or normal rat chow diets supplemented with lycopene (a cancer-fighting carotenoid isolated from tomatoes) or finasteride (the drug commonly prescribed to men with benign prostatic hyperplasia or BPH).

When the results were analyzed, the researchers were surprised to find that all of the diets (tomato-and-broccoli, tomato, broccoli, and lycopene) were more effective in suppressing prostate tumor growth than the drug (finasteride).

At a press conference, lead researcher John W. Erdman, Ph.D., Professor of Food Science and Human Nutrition at the University of Illinois at Urbana, explained the rationale behind the new approach to nutrition research:

"We decided to look at these foods in combination because we believed it was a way to learn more about real diets eaten by real people. People don't eat nutrients, they eat food. And they don't eat one food; they eat many foods in combination."

Erdman also noted, "Studies that examine individual substances in isolation are simply not designed to tell us anything about the interactions that occur between those substances, much less between foods that each contains its own anti-cancer arsenal."

Erdman and his colleagues may have been inspired to try this novel approach by research they published in the November 2003 in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute. In this study, lycopene alone offered rats little protection from prostate cancer, while diets containing freeze-dried tomato powder greatly improved their prostate cancer survival.

In the new study, Erdman chose to combine tomatoes with broccoli, another food with well-studied anti-cancer effects. Compounds in broccoli called glucosinolates are converted in the intestines into compounds that increase liver enzymes' ability to clear carcinogens before they can cause harm.

Erdman was quick to assert that the food synergy between tomatoes and broccoli is not unique, that "This interactivity is likely taking place in any diet high in a variety of plant foods - fruits, vegetables, whole grains and beans."

His colleague, Jeff Prince, Vice-President for Education at the American Institute for Cancer Research, echoed Erdman's belief:

"The take-home message isn't just about tomatoes and broccoli. The inferences to be drawn are more tentative and a lot broader.

A lycopene supplement may not hurt you, but the whole tomato can help you more. A whole tomato may help you, but a tomato eaten with broccoli will help you more. Tomato with broccoli may help you, but a medley of different vegetables eaten together will bolster the body's different defenses against chronic disease."

Special note on Vegetarian Diet and Stress Reduction

We often hear that vegetarian eating is good and that stress management is good, but in combination, they appear to be particularly good for men who have already had prostate cancer.

A recent small study looked at men previously treated for prostate cancer (their prostates were removed) yet showed elevated levels of PSA (prostate-specific antigen), a laboratory screening marker for prostate cancer. They were considered to be in the early stages of recurrence of prostate cancer and at increased risk for the cancer spreading to other parts of the body, a fate shared by more than one-third of men treated for prostate cancer.

These men followed a low-fat, high-fiber, plant food-based diet (rich in whole grains, beans, fresh vegetables, soyfoods, and fruit, and restricted in caffeine, animal foods, and processed foods) combined with a stress reduction program. After four months, tumor growth had slowed, the men lost weight, and in some cases their PSA levels had even decreased - all beneficial results for the men.

Nutrient Excesses

Moderate your intake of fat, including polyunsaturated fat

Total fat in the diet has one of the strongest links to hormone-related diseases like prostate cancer and breast cancer. This may be for a number of related reasons. Obviously, fats are energy-rich and are easy for the body to store as excess body fat, which is related to a wide range of health problems. Additionally, these stored fats send biochemical messages throughout your body that influence your hormone status and balance, the way you use food energy, and even how your immune system works.

What is somewhat surprising in the case of prostate cancer, however, is the increased risk that can come from excessive intake of polyunsaturated fats, especially those containing very high amounts of omega 6 fatty acids. In a study published in the February 2004 issue of Cancer Research, mice with advanced human prostate cancer that were deprived of testosterone and fed a diet low in polyunsaturated fats remained in remission and lived nearly twice as long as mice given a diet high in polyunsaturated fat. In addition, levels of PSA (prostate specific antigen), a measure of the level of prostate cancer present, were much lower in the mice on the low polyunsaturated fat diet.

Research published in Carcinogenesis shows that when arachidonic acid, which is made in the body from omega-6 fatty acids, is introduced to human prostate cancer cells in tissue culture, the result is increased growth of prostate cancer cells.

According to Dr. William Aronson, a Professor of Urology at the UCLA Jonsson Cancer Center, several lines of research point to the role of excessive fat, excessive polyunsaturated fat, and excessive omega-6 polyunsaturated fat in elevated risk of prostate cancer. The body's inflammatory system and androgen hormone metabolism are both seen as likely mechanisms that give these excessive fats a means of increasing prostate problems. According to Dr. Aronson, "I think dietary fat reduction, coupled with high fiber intake from fruits and vegetables in a variety of colors, can truly have an impact on prostate cancer prevention, and in combination with existing treatments, perhaps increase survival times for patients."

Animal foods

Animal foods (meat in particular, but also milk, eggs, and cheese) are key dietary sources of saturated fats and cholesterol, both of which are implicated in the development of prostate and cardiovascular diseases.

Additionally, animals raised for meat are sometimes given hormones to stimulate their growth or are exposed to other agricultural chemicals whose residues may be stored in their flesh. Non-organic milk can also be a potential dietary source of cadmium stemming from environmental pollution. Intake of this heavy metal is also associated with prostate disease.

While organic animal foods are preferable to non-organic, they still contain saturated fats and cholesterol. For prevention of prostate conditions, it is best to limit your intake of animal foods and to instead base your diet on plant foods.

Dairy products

Like fatty fish and omega-3 fatty acids, the impact of dairy products on prostate cancer risk has been controversial in research studies. All whole milk dairy products contain significant amounts of total fat and saturated fat. In addition, most dairy products contain significant amounts of calcium. Under certain circumstances, each of these nutrients can increase risk of prostate cancer when consumed in excessive amounts. Until research issues in this area of dairy products become more clear, men wanting to minimize their risk of prostate cancer would do best to consume dairy products in moderation.

Fried, broiled, and grilled meats

Carcinogenic compounds from fried, broiled, and grilled meats have been shown in the laboratory to cause prostatic DNA mutations as well as prostate tumors. African-American men ingest more of these meats and their carcinogens than do Caucasian American men, which may partly explain why prostate cancer mortality in African-American men is double that of Caucasian American men.

Recommended Diet

Dietary guidelines for prostate health and function include:
Eat fresh and organic foods whenever possible
Enjoy grapefruit as a breakfast juice, add segments to salads, have a half grapefruit as a first course
Eat legumes regularly, especially organic soyfoods (tofu, tempeh, edamame, etc)
Eat fresh vegetables every day, especially mustard family vegetables (broccoli, cauliflower, kale, cabbage, Brussels sprouts, etc.) Men eating 4 servings of vegetables daily have almost half the risk for prostate cancer as men eating less than 2 servings of vegetables daily
Limit your intakes of animal foods, especially animal fat, dairy foods, and red meat
Stick with low-to-moderate intake of cold-water fish like salmon
Enjoy avocados frequently
Eat tomato products frequently (excellent source of lycopene)
Eat whole-grain rice, pasta, cereals, breads, and crackers; suggestion: have whole-grains (like rice, quinoa, or pasta) with tomato sauce, olive oil, garlic, onions, spices, and organic tofu (or other soyfood) a few times weekly
Eat nuts and seeds regularly, especially ground flaxseed-for essential fats, selenium, zinc, vitamin E, dietary fiber, and phytosterols
Enjoy fresh or dried fruit for dessert, especially whole cranberries
If you eat meat, focus on fish and organic game and poultry rather than red meats
Use spices every day, especially rosemary, ginger, garlic, turmeric, basil, sage, thyme, oregano, curry spice (spices like these support hormone metabolism and excretion), and red chili pepper (lowers PSA)
Drink green tea
Enjoy a glass or two of red wine each day
In Sum: A Heart Healthy Diet May Be Good for the Prostate

The type of diet normally prescribed for cardiovascular health-high in vegetables and lean protein, low in fat and red meat-along with moderate alcohol consumption (no more than 2 drinks a day) significantly decreases the risk of benign prostatic hyperplasia, or BPH. (Kristal AR, Arnold KB, et al. Am J Epidemiol.) BPH is associated with frequent and painful urination and affects about half of all men by age 50 and almost all men by age 70.

Researchers at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center in Seattle analyzed data on 4,770 subjects in the Prostate Cancer Prevention Trial, a large randomized clinical trial to determine whether finasteride, a drug used to treat BPH, would also prevent prostate cancer. The men involved in this analysis, all 55 and older, participated in the placebo arm of the finasteride trial. All were free of BPH symptoms at the start of the study and received annual screening for signs of prostate enlargement.

The results showed:

A high-fat diet increased the risk of BPH by 31%
Daily consumption of red meat increased BPH risk by 38%
Eating four or more servings of vegetables daily reduced BPH risk by 32%
Consuming high amounts of lean protein (about 20% of daily calorie intake) lowered BPH risk by 15%
Regular, moderate alcohol consumption (no more than two drinks a day) reduced BPH risk by 38%.
A Fat Chance for BPH

Risk of BPH rose incrementally as fat intake increased, reaching a more than 30% increase in BPH risk among men who got about 40% of their calories from fat.

"We don't really know how working, but it's pretty clear that eating a high amount of fat, and it doesn't appear to matter what kind of fat, increases the risk of BPH," said lead researcher Alan Kristal.

High fat intake promotes BPH because too much dietary fat (and obesity-too much body fat) increases the body's overall inflammatory response and also increases levels of circulating hormones such as estrogens and androgens, both of which affect prostate tissue. In contrast, a low fat, high vegetable and moderate alcohol consumption pattern is associated with less obesity, less inflammation, and lower circulating estrogens and androgens.

Moderate alcohol consumption may help protect against BPH because it lowers levels of circulating hormones (including testosterone) and decreases muscle tone in the prostate.

The study found no evidence that supplemental antioxidants decreased risk, and only weak evidence to suggest supplemental zinc, lycopene or vitamin D might reduce risk.

Practical Tip: A healthy way of eating that includes lots of vegetables along with lean protein and one or two drinks a day (we suggest red wine for its many resveratrol-related benefits) was clearly highly protective.

Editor - Tavaris Long