Amazing Man!!!

Good Morning Gentlemen… Believe it or not contrary to conventional wisdom it is not men who get to decide if a relationship is a go..  Women decide to let you into their lives, into their hearts, and into their homes. All you can do as a man is profess to her that you’d like to be a part of her life then proceed to be a little different... a little amazing.... 

Gentlemen, your competition is not the next man or the last... IT'S YOU!!!

Thus, Here are some things you can do to separate yourself from the herd (or horde) of men who are vying for her attention..

·      Do not lie to her… even if it hurts be honest, forthcoming, and lucid

·      Do not tell her no, or what you will not do to make her happy

·      Be responsible about your personal dealings and responsive to her needs

·      Seek wisdom and knowledge.. Spiritually, Emotionally, & Mentally

·      Be responsible with your finances

·      Love … not just those in your immediate circle of family...

·      Be faithful to your commitments, Honor God, Honor yourself, & Honor her

·      Stand on what you believe in, do not waiver…

·      Value your reputation, let there be no one who can say a bad word about you

·      Say what you mean, mean what you say (don’t tell her you’ll call and don’t call)

·      Challenge her to Grow Personally, Professionally, & Spiritually

·      Don’t be perfect…. Be perfect for her… be the iron that sharpens iron

·      Pray for guidance in your decisions…. Then pray with her for health in your relationship

Fact is being amazing to her isn’t difficult when she loves & respects you..

When we began this “Year of the Gentleman” It was more than just making a fashion statement.. We must be committed to being honorable men.. Holding each other to a standard that has long since passed. 

Christ gathered 12 disciples to follow him.. Each of those men took responsibility for the next man.

This is the essence of “The Year of the Gentleman – Return of the Gentleman”.. it would be easy to be about trends, fashion, style…. But if the heart of the man is corrupt then all we’d be doing is dressing up a pig…

I want to see us do better.. it starts with each man examining himself, but also each of us as men, sharpening the other man

Be Amazing!!!

Editor – DNYC